24-139 Fun-Loving Attitude

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Fun-Loving Attitude

“a state of enjoying life in a lively, lighthearted way”

Can you imagine if we all lived this way? Well, we can certainly aim for it. Personally, I prefer to live this way…I’m not always successful at it. Until I process through my triggers, I’m having to remind myself to find ways to enjoy my life.

Now granted, some may see this as not taking life seriously enough. Yes, there are serious things going on but that doesn’t mean we have to succumb to them. Many a comedian has come from hard, possibly bullying circumstances in their youth and discovered that they faired better when they were able to make their oppressors laugh and/or found ways to have fun. Our challenge is to not have fun at someone else’s expense.

A comedian I like to follow, Tammy Pescatelli, has a slogan she uses a lot called “Find the Funny”. Today’s MotD suggests an alternate slogan: “Find the Fun”.

And…Just for the fun of it, I asked ChatGPT to give me/us ways to have a fun-loving attitude, and here’s what it offered:

“Cultivating a fun-loving attitude involves a combination of mindset shifts and practical habits. Here are some steps to help you develop a more fun-loving outlook on life:”

  1. Embrace Positivity: Focus on the positive aspects of situations and people. Practice gratitude by regularly reflecting on things you appreciate in your life.
  2. Be Present: Engage fully in the moment. Avoid dwelling on the past or worrying excessively about the future. Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, can help you stay grounded in the present.
  3. Foster Curiosity: Approach life with a sense of wonder and curiosity. Try new activities, learn new things, and stay open to new experiences.
  4. Cultivate Humor: Find humor in everyday situations. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Share jokes, watch comedies, and enjoy light-hearted conversations.
  5. Stay Active: Physical activity can boost your mood and energy levels. Engage in activities you enjoy, whether it’s sports, dancing, or simply going for a walk.
  6. Surround Yourself with Positive People: Spend time with friends and family who uplift and inspire you. Positive social interactions can enhance your mood and outlook on life.
  7. Pursue Passions: Engage in hobbies and activities that bring you joy. Having something you love to do can significantly contribute to a fun-loving attitude.
  8. Practice Kindness: Acts of kindness can boost your happiness and contribute to a positive outlook. Helping others often brings a sense of fulfillment and joy.
  9. Learn to Let Go: Release grudges and past grievances. Holding onto negativity can weigh you down. Practice forgiveness and move forward.
  10. Stay Optimistic: Adopt an optimistic mindset by looking for solutions rather than focusing on problems. Believe in your ability to overcome challenges.
  11. Take Breaks: Allow yourself to relax and unwind. Regular breaks and downtime are crucial for maintaining a positive and fun-loving attitude.
  12. Set Fun Goals: Plan activities and set goals that are purely for enjoyment, such as a trip, a game night, or a creative project.

Which one(s) of these things could you do today? Several of these I already do. The one that jumps out at me, though, is #9…working through that one, I know, will help me have a more fun-loving attitude.

How about you? Is a fun-loving attitude a core value for you?

BTW…here’s what it looked like to begin with …

abstract background of mostly darker shades of blue, red, and purple with pinkish grey thick random stripes, and a small blob of pearly white in the lower right corner.

joyfully,

Maureen
The Mandala Lady

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About the 2024 Mandalas of the Day

Each day I will create and post a mandala inspired by one of 366 “value” words chosen randomly. The objective being to discover for myself which ones would best represent my core values…and by doing so, I hope it inspires you to determine your own.

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My Mission: connecting with our Inner Light in delightful, inspiring ways For me, creating mandalas is more than just coloring pretty patterns in a circle. I do it because my spiritual evolution and creativity require it of me. My mandala designs come about within an active meditative state, connected with my higher self, my spiritual guides and nature spirits. Together, we bring into form, mandala art the allows me to re-connect with my own inner peace and joy, letting me explore and expand my own creative spirit to however far and in whatever direction I want to take it. As part of my own spiritual journey, I encourage, and hopefully inspire, others to explore their own creativity, to help them re-connect with their own inner peace and joy. As a means to that end, I make all of my mandalas available for people to color. Why should I have all the fun?

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