23-105 Just Ask #7

Today’s Mandala Message: Assume That You Can

This week I’m working through Principles #17 and #18 from Jack Canfield’s “The Success Principles” entitled “Ask! Ask! Ask!” and “Reject Rejection” respectively. I set my intention today to ponder the idea of assuming that “I can” expect a yes. When in comes to asking, Canfield states: “Don’t start with the assumption that you can’t get it. If you are going to assume, assume you CAN get an upgrade. … Don’t assume against yourself.”

I grew up with the notion that to assume a negative outcome was being realistic. What a horrible notion to put into anyone’s head, especially a child’s. In looking back on my life, the reality has been that most of the time I’ve gotten what I wanted, and if I didn’t, it was mostly for the best because something better came along or it put me on a different path that suited me better.

These days I find myself being triggered whenever someone says to me that realistically you probably won’t get what you want. I prefer Canfield’s suggestion of assuming FOR myself…knowing full well that if it turns out otherwise, something better is on the horizon.

So how about you? Do you tend to assume that the answer will be no? Are you of the belief that thinking “realistically” is assuming you won’t get what you want? Are you open to changing that mindset?

“Once you replace
negative thoughts
with positive ones,
you’ll start having
positive results.”

— Willie Nelson


The Mandala Lady
All Things Mandalas

An Invitation

I invite you to color along with me this year as part of what I’m calling “The Year of Self-Exploration and Expansion” with all of my “Mandalas of the ___” (day, weekmonthyear). If you’re interested in more of a self-exploration approach to coloring, check out my “Coloring Mandalas as Meditation”. You can download this mandala at MandalaoftheWeek.com.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s