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Lesson 121: ”Forgiveness is the key to happiness.”

AI Reframe: Release opens the door to happiness.

Suggested Practice:
Twice today—morning and evening—for ten minutes each, choose someone you dislike or despise. Close your eyes, look at them in your mind, and search for the smallest gleam of light within the ugly picture you hold. Let that light grow until it covers the person, making the picture beautiful.

Then, transfer that same light to a friend, seeing in both, a savior who offers you the forgiveness you gave.

Finally, let your “enemy” and friend unite in blessing you, for now you are one with them, forgiven by yourself.

Remember throughout the day, the role forgiveness plays in bringing happiness to every unforgiving mind, with yours among them. Every hour tell yourself:

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.
I awaken from the dream
that I am mortal, fallible and full of sin,
and know I am the perfect Son of God*.

Alternate versions:

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.
I awaken from the dream that
I am separate, broken, and incomplete,
and know I am the wholeness
in which all things arise.

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.
I awaken from the belief that I am flawed and limited,
and remember the truth of my own whole and loving Self.

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.
I awaken from the story that I am defined
by my mistakes and shortcomings,
and recognize my capacity for wholeness and peace.

And my personal favorite—short and sweet:

Forgiveness equals happiness.
I am not my flaws. I am already whole.

* “Son of God” — Instead of a hierarchical title, this emphasizes our shared humanity and our equal role in each other’s salvation—to see the world, and everyone in it, through the eyes of love, thereby waking up from the dream of separation.

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Message

At last we’re getting to the core of what forgiveness means from ACIM’s perspective. Up until now the Course has tiptoed around the topic. Today it goes into the heart of the matter. I highly recommend you read the full lesson for yourself. It covers, in depth, what it means to have an unforgiving mind and why we need to forgive.

One of the biggest challenges of ACIM’s concept of forgiveness is this: regardless of what others have done, if I want happiness, the only person I need to forgive is myself. It’s not about forgiving them but me. Why? Because I’m the one who declared that those who wronged me are “bad” people who must be shunned. In doing so, I created a grievance within myself, which obscures my peace and joy. This is why we forgive ourselves: “I forgive myself for creating this grievance against this person.”

Let me be clear—this is not about condoning behavior or letting people off the hook. It’s about me maintaining my peace and joy despite what they’ve done. They have their own work to do.

Today’s practice is an excellent exercise for experiencing forgiveness as ACIM defines it. When I did the morning practice, I picked a public figure I despised but didn’t know personally. After about a minute, I saw their light. I noticed I saw them more as a small child—closer to their true Self—than as their wounded adult self. Moving on to a dear friend, I saw their light almost instantly. Like the “enemy,” I saw them as a small child as well. When they both blessed me with their light, I saw myself in a photo from when I was about a year old—happy and carefree. I saw all three of us united in a triangle of light.

Then something shifted. I had a passing thought: what if I did the practice again with myself in the position of the detested enemy? I don’t hate myself, but there are parts I despise: the part keeping me 40+ pounds overweight, the part that procrastinates, the part that lets fear keep me from doing amazing things. Those parts.

Experiencing the light on those parts opened floodgates of decades of self-induced grievances. It was as the lesson says: “The unforgiving mind is full of fear, and offers love no room to be itself; no place where it can spread its wings in peace and soar above the turmoil of the world.” It wasn’t so much about forgiving myself for the weight or procrastination or fears. It was forgiving myself for condemning myself for those actions. In other words, I wasn’t being asked to approve of the behavior. I was being asked to drop the judgment I’d wrapped around it.

There’s more for me to process here, but I felt a major shift and much lighter—at least figuratively.

Here’s what I learned: if I truly want happiness, I must forgive myself for the grievances I’ve created toward others—and toward myself.

“Lesson 121…offers the same piece of advice [walk toward the light]. Only it urges us to do it today. Do it now. Don’t wait.”
— “The Course in Miracles Experiment” by Pam Grout

Blessings & Peace,

Maureen,
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